Affirmed on admission
“As a member of the Humanitas Independent Counselling Society, I understand that my role as a helping professional carries significant responsibility. I am not here to “fix” people but to walk alongside them with care, respect, and intention. This oath is my commitment to the people I will serve, the HICS professional community I now join, and the person I aim to be in this work.”
| No. | Affirmation | Made enforceable by |
|---|---|---|
| i | Dignity and humanity I will respect the dignity and humanity of every person I work with. Every client brings their own story, beliefs, struggles, and strengths. I will treat each person with kindness, empathy, and an open mind no matter their race, background, faith, identity, or worldview. I will remember that trust is earned through respect, not assumed through title. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2.1 and 2.4 |
| ii | Privacy and confidentiality I will protect my clients’ privacy and confidentiality. What is shared with me stays with me unless someone is at risk of serious harm or the law requires me to act. I will always aim to explain those limits clearly, so clients feel safe and informed. Confidentiality is not just a rule - it is a promise of trust. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 4 and 8 (limits) |
| iii | The client's best interests I will always act in the best interests of my clients. My focus is on what is helpful to the client, not what suits me, my preferences, or my own values. I will be careful not to influence, push, or lead someone in a direction that is not theirs. If a situation arises where my objectivity is compromised, I will take responsible steps to ensure the client is not affected. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2.2, 5.3 and 12.1 |
| iv | Working within areas of competence I will work within my areas of competence. I recognise my limits. If I am not trained or equipped to help with a specific issue, I will not attempt to handle it alone. I will consult, refer, or seek supervision. This is not weakness - it is responsible, ethical care. I will never risk someone else’s well-being by acting beyond what I know. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 6 and 7 |
| v | Healthy professional boundaries I will maintain healthy and professional boundaries. Boundaries protect both the client and myself. I will be mindful of the power I hold in the professional relationship, and I will not enter into personal, financial, or social entanglements that could blur that relationship. Respectful distance fosters trust, not detachment. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 5 and 12 |
| vi | Lifelong learning I will continue learning and growing throughout my career. Admission is the starting line, not the finish. I commit to lifelong learning through reading, reflection, training, and supervision. Growth is essential to staying relevant, responsible, and in touch with the evolving needs of the people I serve. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2.6 and 7.5 |
| vii | Social and cultural context I will be aware of social and cultural contexts. People live within systems - family, community, culture, economy, politics. These systems affect their mental health and access to support. I will do my best to understand how these forces shape someone’s experience, and I will never assume I “know better” than the person living it. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clause 2.4 |
| viii | Respect for autonomy I will respect each person’s autonomy. Clients are the experts in their own lives. I will make sure they understand their rights, the nature of our work, and that they always have a say in what happens. Informed consent is not a form - it is an ongoing conversation. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2.1 and 3 |
| ix | Responsibility for one's actions I will take responsibility for my actions. If I make a mistake I will acknowledge it, reflect on it, and take steps to repair any harm done. I will stay open to feedback, own my decisions, and remain answerable to the ethical codes that guide my profession. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2.5, 10.4 and 14 |
| x | Care for one's own wellbeing I will care for my own well-being. Burnout and compassion fatigue are real. I cannot show up for others if I am depleted myself. I will prioritise rest, balance, supervision, and honest reflection. Self-care is not self-indulgent - it is professional responsibility. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clause 11 |
| xi | Contributing to an ethical community I will contribute to a professional and ethical community. I will collaborate respectfully with my peers, honour shared ethical standards, and seek out constructive dialogue. I will not turn a blind eye to unethical conduct. Together, we create the culture of the counselling field and the HICS professional community - and I want to be part of building something strong and safe. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clause 10 |
| xii | Upholding the integrity of the work I will uphold the integrity of this work. I know that how I work - in a session, in the community, and even online - reflects on all who do this work. I will act with professionalism, transparency, and care. I will represent the counselling field and the HICS professional community, with integrity, including in digital spaces. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 9, 10.5 and 13 |
| xiii | Presence, courage and humility I will show up with presence, courage, and humility. This work is not about perfection. It is about showing up fully, honestly, and with care. I will never pretend to have all the answers. But I will be present, willing to listen, and committed to growth. I will always aim to be human before expert. | Made enforceable by Code of Conduct, clauses 2 (principles) and 11 |
“This is my oath. To those I serve, to those I work alongside, and to myself. I take these commitments seriously and carry them forward into my career with respect, intention, and care.”
Every affirmation carries a right-hand annotation to the clause of the Code of Professional Conduct that makes it enforceable. The Oath is the human commitment; the Code is the consequence, and the two are meant to be read beside each other.